Just How Real and Personal should you get as a Professional Psychic or Spell Caster.
I remember when I started spell casting online at eBay in 2006. Almost ten years ago. We had just started the Real Witches Channel, videos of us doing spells with Erin’s baby girl throwing fits in the background. I think she breast fed in one video lol
This wasn’t even business promotion. There was no non local business yet. That was just us filming ourselves trying to show what the life of a Real Witch looked like.
Then people begged us to go to eBay they could see we were real and wanted our services.
So I did, then Erin followed and not to brag but we were very well known.
Then I attracted the attention of a cyber stalker and realized just how easily found I was, my kids were, how naive with so much of sharing of my real life with good intentions really had been.
I had to learn balance when I re started my business after the stalking. Still always using my own face, my own photos, but had to use past last names, that were not my legal last name, stop showing off my kids, home and family and hubby so much, learn to show the world I’m happy as a witch, this shit works, … but not make anyone so fascinated they wanted to stalk or rob me.
Recently since new year’s I’ve gotten myself involved as a hard core supporter of other psychics and spell casters, trying to form supportive sellers groups etc.
So I’ve had the chance to observe through Virgo eyes.. Yes God help everyone lol! The different forms of marketing people attempt.
Coming off too professional, well let’s face it, that’s usually not a Pagan issue :), but for others it can come across as a bit boring.
But then again I saw the other day a psychic in really bad health try to force herself to keep a commitment to a live free one card reading and it was so painful to watch.
It in no way or shape made me want to bother her with a order.
Made me wanna call dispatch for a well being check !
It’s good to say I’m successful , here is my amazing feedback testimonials, or I’m down to my last open spot tonight. But if your so screwed up people are afraid to place orders as it might be a bother to you. Your doing it wrong!
Also I recently saw a psychic who also does some spells.
Beg for customers so she could order dinner that night
Listen I’m a witch, I have bad days, my life isn’t always perfect but if I’m so poor I can’t buy one meal, and I have the power to do money spells.. Umm Hello.
And I’m not rich. I live a very simple life. I’m not saying to be a good spell caster you should have a zillion in the bank.
But should you be able to manifest a pizza.. Without begging and making it public.. yes…
You should be able to do that law of attraction style without even lighting a candle, come on now.
If you’re saving up for a cruise or a huge vacation or fund raising or some other big deal that’s fine.
I grew up Catholic my great Aunt was a nun. It’s one thing to take a vow of poverty to use it to further your spiritual practice. But if you charge for spiritual practices and make it your profession then parade your poverty around. Exactly how are people going to have faith in your ability to help them.
Not that were perfect. I was a psychology major, I know substance abuse counselors that are still active addicts yet can and do help their clients to recovery.
I know psychologists with more issues than ten of their clients combined that are still great at their job.
So I’m not saying Witches or Psychics or Reiki Masters can’t get sick or be poor and still not be helpful to others, provide miracles for others, what I am saying is if I go to buy a money spell, I’m gonna buy it from someone not publicly complaining about poverty all the time.
If your a poor psychic. Ask your guides for help!
Sickness is a bit different, hate to tell you but everyone will at some point get sick and die. Just happens.
But if you are so sick you can barely function. Learn to deal with it before going on video.
Show your fighting spirit. Tell ppl hey I live with this illness but I carry on. But only if you really can. If you can’t, then get to where you can so you can mean it.
There is so many cons out there in the craft, that the few real ones need to really remember to stop and self care. Take care of your spiritual needs before trying to take on every client. If your sold out be sold out. Don’t make people wait weeks because you’re just so stressed and overworked and overwhelmed. If I hear one more psychic or spell worker complain about having so much work they are over whelmed I will kick them. Find your limits, know your boundaries, don’t get greedy, people will see right through you.
Be Real and Honest but check yourself in the mirror first. How attractive is your reality. ?
Fix yourself first then clients will naturally flow.
This is all said with love and alot of screwing up, doing it wrong and experience in fucking up myself ! 🙂
Love Jessa The Hoodoo Honey of The Real Witches.