Oh I remember it like it was yesterday….30 years ago laying on a blanket listening to a woman read Creative Visualization to our group…Years and Years later in my 30s being called by my coven to come watch this dvd called the Secret..
And how it blew our minds that somehow Esther Hicks and Abhram Hicks could like almost summarize witchcraft in a hour on a cruise.
And we all sat back when Jerry died.
Why? Because suddenly it all felt just slightly fake.
It wasn’t fake. Postive thinking over all is infact better then wallowing and being stuck being a grouchy ass asshole
Untill the day you truly have a shitty week and allow yourself to play I’m a Asshole by Dennis Leary and laugh so hard you really genuinely raise your actual vibration.
That’s where this completely unfortunate toxic positivity word and conversation even had to be brought up
Look what’s negative to one person is perfectly appropriate and healthy to another.
None of you are the positivity police or expert or divine God or Goddess of positivity for all.
The most underheard overlooked part of the secret was about setting your intention*spell casting,* then letting it be.
What was the sentence if meditation feels good do that. If making a grilled cheese feels good do that.
I myself will take a good grilled cheese over meditation any day..
Blame it on my adult ADD or my cheese addiction…I dont care
But when I’m eating a warm soft comfy grilled cheese I no longer give a shit if I’m poor,fat, single, imperfect ect.
I’m eating a grilled cheese and for those few mins I’m not forcing postive thoughts or judging my grouchy crappy thoughts
I’m in the moment connecting with my grilled cheese and really not giving a shit about much and probably not even having a thought but yum this is good.
Ok that’s genuine authentic “postivity ”
Weither it be a grilled cheese or steak or veggie or laughing at Dennis Leary being a Asshole Or binge watching Orange is the new black.
It doesn’t matter.
Whatever shuts your head up from the constant chatter or helps you forget long enough to allow better vibrations in. Whatever makes you smile even if its Christian Slater in Heathers is your personal postivity.
And if anyone judges what is vibrational raising for you because it doesn’t fit in their rules of what happiness and allowance looks like.. slap them lol jk I really dont promote violence as a violence survivor but that’s just it. I’ve healed enough in my own ways to even crack a joke like that and that is actual real postivity being able to laugh at the human condition and accept it.
To a certian extent.
Obviously with the child sexual trafficking crisis we got some exceptions if you can only spark your joy by hurting a child or even a adult physically or sexually this post isnt for you and your sick and need help .
But for most of us not suffering from pedophilia or some sort of need to seriously harm others.
If eating a grilled cheese brings you peace …eat it
If going out into the Gardnerville Ranchos sandpits and shooting a gun brings you peace do that
If watching raunchy comedy brings you laughs do that
If crying brings you release do that
If burning their photo while screaming cusswords at the top of your lungs brings you peace and release do that
All I really ask is that it feels real for you and not a chore or a I “should”
And that you don’t judge others
You heal and let go and allow and find your real..let others find their own
The only toxic in toxic positivity is when one person decides what is postive and what isn’t.
Thats not your job or your business. Except for yourself.
And if you still get stuck on postivity
Its actually a word from science…we need both positive and negative ions to even have a universe
So you know drop those dam words
Use being in the moment
Trying something new
And my personal favorite as a witch..LMFAO
Cuz there is no higher magick then Gut laughing
Blessed Be 🙂